MJ lived at Phill’s parents’ house after they were married and while he started in the Army.  Sarah and I were in high school and dating.  There was a weekend when neither of the parents were home; I don’t remember why, so MJ was in charge.  We three walked to Wheaton Bowl and back, 2 ½ miles each way.  We all liked bowling a lot and we all played in leagues later than that.  I remember that as a very kind and friendly thing for MJ to do with a couple of high school kids.